Tuesday, 27 May 2014
Always Love Yourself
Our planet as a whole is uncomfortable with emotions over all; one of the reason for it inadequate vocabulary,
Emotion is well expressed in arty crafts , symbolically as well as gifts- internally this is where the importance of dreams come in
General Key focus healing all the way to the source of the pain
Identifying wounds - does it control your life
Vociferously your wounds
Strange but identify the good
What are “emotional memories “
Fears of taking control back
Is there any forgiveness towards one self or others to be done
This has created which is increasingly termed “ wound logy culture, meaning the exchange of wounds as the subject/substance of conversation
The much needed validation for injury endured , an out pouring of compassion from attentive group members ,
The dangers here are that relationship based on woundology intimacy
May have the affect of each other
Constant need of each other
Open passage to each other interiors
“ not leaving here, because this is where I found support”
There are many books &therapy dealing with heart/ emotional therapy.
For some newbies dealing with the stigma emotions related to being a newbie may be the hardest
Friend from different secondary school to the one I attended, belong to really tight knit group, met some one from this group at a wedding who updated me on what had happened since, about this friend, since considerable time had passed , apart from feeling the emotion of sadness that she had gone through depression, what irritated was the lack understanding compassion, loyalty… friendship itself. This friend of hers who was filling me in clearly hadn’t heard about me…
It will be harder to trust people , and creating genuine bonds/ friendship and maintaining them.
Additionally harder for the more sensitive newbies- you know when words being said do not match the vibes i.e. emotional [*which are most unusually correct* ] you will have to learn the hard way , so as to avoid the shallow lot like the negativity that, they are.
*which are most unusually correct* example another one of them eerie Indiana moments a dislikeable person , for the sake of other friends tried to get along, only just newly getting along, this person decided to give the unpleasantly on a parent, this is probably just one of mine personality quirks- my thinking you and I don’t know each other that well that you feel free to talk quite like that yet, [you think I’d take the snidy option spill it all out] I bought parent subject to an end, quick time, some months later the parent in question passed away, out of respect visited, about this time learnt that this parent was a newbie mmm that explain a bit about how reacted / responded.
Did make me think do I care /want to be parent and my kids talk about me like that…
Kids are usually quite sweet , after watching Stephen Fry DVD not all kids be the same.- yep uplifting
In family/ sibling arguments, may have absolutely nothing to pick on, apart from me newbie state.
Which can be to totally uncalled for and extremely hurtful
[if a spouse ever somat like that, nothing in heaven or hell will save them - let me rephrase that the multi universes will save them]
So unless I enjoy being a pesky type of person there nothing to pick on most part , apart from me newbie state, Which is egotistically quite gratifying… there you go, I is just too good :P
always love yourself
For those of us who aren't too good, don’t bother looking to the left or right of you :P